Here's How to Handle Difficult Situations—Story of Esther
- Heather Edmund
- Feb 16, 2023
- 7 min read
Updated: Mar 20
Like Esther, it is essential for us to have a clear understanding of the right actions to take and avoid in every area of our lives.
Life Lesson Learned From the Bible - The Book of Esther
Life is full of surprises, challenges, and having to make tough choices, and the danger of making the wrong choice can be detrimental.
We need to know what to do or what not to do in every area of our life. It can be difficult to determine what is the best choice for your life and the lives that you are responsible for—making it crucial to have good judgement.
So, how do we get wisdom to know what to do during challenging times? We get it from someone who already has this quality. The key lies in seeking guidance from individuals who already exhibit this trait.
“For the Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth comes knowledge and understanding” – Proverbs 2:6.
Seek wisdom instead of fear
Esther chapter 4-6 shows us why it is important to be patient and ask God for advice. Faced with a life-threatening situation, Esther did not rely on her own understanding or wisdom to determine her actions, particularly given the complexity and gravity of her circumstances.
If she had made a hasty, impulsive decision or relied solely on her own understanding to determine the course of action, she could have endangered her family and many others. Ultimately, it might have even cost her own life.
She also could have been selfish, since she was living a protected sheltered life as a queen and could have decided to do nothing. But Esther made a wise decision, she humbled herself and fasted so she could know the best way to deal with the situation she was in (Esther 4:15-16).
Esther faced a challenging circumstance where her people and family faced the threat of annihilation due to Haman's anger towards her cousin Mordecai's refusal to show him respect. However, Esther realized that the battle was not hers to fight, but rather belonged to God, so she sought God's help to overcome her difficult situation (2 Chronicles 20:15).
With God, we never have to fight our battles alone. Instead, we can stand firm in faith and witness His deliverance (2 Chronicles 20:17).
During the times of Kingdom's, the position that Haman was in, being second in command to the King, authorize him to do anything he wanted if he got the Kings approval. Unfortunately, Haman was unaware that his desires extended to the extermination of the Queen's family. Still, Esther had to be wise with how she would handle this difficult, deadly situation.
As you read Esther's story, the result of her consulting God changed the course of not only her own life, but also that of her family and nation (Esther 5:9-15).
King David was also successful in life because before he did anything he consulted God first (2 Samuel 2:1, 2 Samuel 5:19-20, 2 Samuel 5:23-25). Even when his life was in danger and was tempted to act on his own will, he asked God for advice instead of acting on emotions or instinct.
His trust in God being able to give him the best solution, outweighed his predicament (1 Samuel 30:6). By doing this David always knew what to do and it made him greatly successful (1 Samuel 30:1-8, 2 Samuel 5:10).
When you seek God's guidance and trust in Him, you will not only see results but also receive His reward (Colossians 3:23-24).
From the book of Esther, we can draw two important lessons.
The first is to be mindful of how we treat others because we never know their connections, their future significance, or even who they truly are (Esther 6).
Mordecai, Queen Esther’s cousin who adopted her after her parents' death, remained unknown to Haman in terms of his relation to the queen. Since Esther had not disclosed her nationality or family background, Haman was unaware that his plot against the Jews also targeted Queen Esther herself (Esther 2:10). His hatred for Mordecai led him to seek the destruction of all Jews, unknowingly condemning the very queen of Persia and her people.
The second lesson emphasizes the power of trusting in God rather than relying solely on our own understanding. When we put our faith in Him, He intervenes and fights our battles, bringing about the victory we could never achieve on our own.
The root of Haman's problem
The dishonor that Mordecai shown Haman rubbed him the wrong way. It angered and annoyed Haman so much that it enraged him (Esther 5:9).
Although Haman had been elevated above all the other aristocrats by King Xerxes and possessed everything, he was troubled by the fact that one man did not bow down and honor him (Esther 3:1-2, 5:9-13).
While in a discussion with his wife and friends, they suggested to Haman to kill Mordecai. Haman loved the idea and took action (Esther 5:14).
Seeking King Xerxes' approval to carry out his plan to kill Mordecai, Haman was unaware that God had a different plan. God influenced King Xerxes to honor Mordecai for uncovering a conspiracy that threatened the king's life (Esther 2:21-23). So, when King Xerxes ask Haman what we should do to honor a man that he wanted to acclaim, Haman assumed it was about himself and proceeded to advise the King on what should be done (Esther 6:6-14, 7:1). Little did Haman know that his suggestions were actually for Mordecai, not himself.
Allow God to intervene
When you let God take control, He will handle your challenges for you (2 Chronicles 20:12). No situation is beyond His power to change.
He says,
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." —Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)
Esther’s story is a powerful example of divine intervention. What seemed like a hopeless situation for her and her people was completely reversed. Haman, who plotted their destruction, faced his own downfall instead (Esther 9:24-25).
By trusting God, Esther not only saved Mordecai but also protected the entire Jewish nation—and in doing so, she secured her own future as well.
No one can stand against God—any attempt to do so will ultimately lead to downfall (Esther 7). Sadly, many, like Haman, remain unaware that their actions oppose God or His people, only to bring ruin upon themselves.
God didn’t just spare Mordecai’s life; He completely transformed his destiny (Esther 10:3).
When God is involved, He does more than just resolve problems—He brings unexpected blessings. He not only protects, prevents, and delivers but also exceeds expectations by orchestrating multiple victories on your behalf. This is the power of His grace, mercy, and love (Zechariah 9:12).
“Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you — Proverbs 4:6.
When we put our trust in God and get His advice and direction on what to do during our difficult moments, we will triumph, overcome, and experience success.
Do you want to start making the right choice when in a difficult situation? All you have to do is make the choice of salvation and accept Jesus into your life by confessing that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that He came from Heaven to die for your sins (Romans 10:9).
When you confess and accept Jesus as Lord and Savior of your life, you will establish a relationship where can now have His guidance for your life to ensure answers, protection, and success.
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