Social pressures of being single
Being single can lead to different social pressures that affect how individuals view themselves and the decisions they make. In many cultures, there is a dominant belief that ties personal value and achievement to being in a romantic relationship.
This societal expectation can lead to feelings of inadequacy for those who are single, as they may feel judged or pitied by peers and family members.
The fear of being perceived as lonely or undesirable can lead some people to hastily enter relationships that might not be satisfying or healthy, just to escape the social stigma linked to being single.
From Series: It's Ok To Be Single
Irrespective of the social pressures that come with singleness, being single offers so much value to one's life.
It can be a period of personal fulfillment and self-discovery, where we can learn about ourselves and our life's purpose.
This is a great time to discover your preferences, gain knowledge, enhance your skills, grow, and gradually seek the person of your dreams while becoming their dream come true.
Although being single may make you feel incomplete, this time offers a chance to become whole and satisfied with yourself—if you fully embrace this season.
When you're involved, it can be difficult to focus on self-improvement, as you may either become self-centered by focusing solely on yourself or overlook your personal growth due to limited time and space.
As a single person, you can concentrate on activities that enable you to achieve your goals and become effective, outstanding, inspiring, and influential. You can become an excellent parent, spouse, friend, teacher, leader, entrepreneur, or anything else you aspire to be, and you have the time to prepare for the various stages of your life.
Therefore, avoid the temptation to leave this phase of your life too soon, before fulfilling its purpose. Instead, use this period to develop into your best self, ensuring that when you meet others, they will experience the best version of you.
The beauty of being single lies in the amazing discoveries you make during this period. It allows you to explore your identity, understand your life's purpose, find your unique path, take charge of your destiny, embrace the experiences that shaped you, and gives and provides the space, and insight, to understand the role of relationships in your purpose-driven life.
Not everyone is destined to stay single, but during this period, don't squander it or view it negatively. Consider it an opportunity to devote uninterrupted time to falling in love with your Creator and understanding love from their point of view. This way, you'll recognize what genuine, safe, pure, and powerful love can be, helping you find the right kind of love when it arrives.
So, while you are in your season of being single, live life authentically, find out what your purpose is, and understand the steps and strategies needed to fulfill it.
Do not overlook this season. Instead, take advantage of it, and when you do, you will know why it’s ok to be single.
This blog was quoted and inspired by the book: It's Ok To Be Single. You can get more information and a sneak peek of the first two chapters here.
From Series: It's Ok To Be Single
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